Children have an innate desire to do things for themselves. Whether it’s pouring a drink, sweeping the floor or helping prepare a meal, they are drawn to the real work of daily life. Maria Montessori recognised this more than a century ago, observing that children feel a deep sense of pride and satisfaction when they can participate meaningfully in the world around them.

Today, these ideas remain at the heart of Montessori education, and they are becoming increasingly valued by parents and teachers alike. At TEMS, we are strengthening this approach by bringing Montessori principles into school life across the whole school, helping students of all ages develop independence, confidence and responsibility.

A key part of this work is supported by Montessori expert Ainhoa Martín-Chico Llorente, who provides ongoing training across Infants, Juniors and Seniors. Her guidance helps our staff incorporate Practical Life principles into classrooms in a way that feels natural, purposeful and engaging.

But Montessori doesn’t stop at the school gates. With just a few thoughtful changes, families can bring the same spirit of independence into their homes.

What is Montessori practical life?

Montessori Practical Life refers to meaningful, hands-on activities that prepare children to navigate real-life situations with growing autonomy. These are everyday tasks such as pouring, cleaning, dressing, cooking. These types of situations support:

  • Fine motor development
  • Concentration
  • Coordination
  • Order and organisation
  • Independence and self-esteem

By engaging in these activities, children learn not just how to do things, but that they can do them.

Why practical life matters

Practical Life activities may seem simple, but their impact is profound. They support academic, emotional and physical development in lasting ways.

Practical Life activities:

  • Build independence and responsibility
  • Develop perseverance and problem-solving
  • Strengthen attention to detail
  • Support emotional and social growth
  • Give children a genuine sense of capability and belonging

Children naturally want to help. When we allow them to contribute whether that is at school or at home, we help them feel valued and capable.

Categories of practical life activities

Practical Life is divided into clear categories, each supporting different aspects of a child’s development.

Self-Care

Tasks that help children manage their own needs:

  • Washing hands
  • Brushing hair and teeth
  • Getting dressed
  • Preparing simple foods

Care of the Environment

Activities that teach responsibility for shared spaces

  • Watering plants
  • Sweeping or dusting
  • Setting or clearing the table
  • Caring for animals

Grace and Courtesy

Exercises that build social awareness and empathy:

  • Greeting politely
  • Saying please and thank you
  • Listening and taking turns
  • Role-playing social situations

Montessori at home: Practical life beyond school

One of the great strengths of Montessori is how seamlessly it can continue at home. Children learn best through real participation, and daily family life offers countless opportunities.

How to bring Montessori practical life into your home

  • Follow your child’s interests when they show a desire to help.
  • Demonstrate slowly and silently, letting your actions speak.
  • Allow for repetition—children learn through doing, again and again.
  • Provide child-sized tools so they can work successfully.
  • Embrace progress over perfection—spills and mistakes are stepping stones.
  • Gradually increase complexity as your child gains confidence.
  • Invite them into “family work” throughout the day to build collaboration.

To help you get started, explore the activity guide, which outlines age-appropriate Practical Life tasks from early childhood through adolescence. You can also find other ideas and options here.

Supporting children together

With the guidance of Ainhoa, TEMS is weaving Montessori Practical Life principles throughout the school. When these ideas are also encouraged at home, children develop deep confidence, independence and joy in contributing to their world.

Practical Life is more than a set of tasks. It’s a pathway to raising capable, empowered and self-reliant young people.

If you’d like additional support or ideas for implementing Montessori at home, our team is always here to help.